Homoculture has a gender problem.
It took the tattered remains of its broken heart from the shreds of colonial cloth and restitched itself a new outfit…full of the same heterodynamics that broke the homo in the first place.
Gender is used as an instruction manual to short hand the role you’d feel most comfortable playing for another.
Many people in these dynamics deny their existence, their emperor fully clothed
I see a weiner though idk about you but you ain’t got any homoclothes on, just heteroculture masqing as queer.
I refuse to use gender to construct my relationships. If you need it to understand me and treat me, you aren’t treating me, you are treating a gender you are projecting onto me.
I want a relationship constucted from our own efforts, our own energies, our own desires, drives, and dives into ourselves.
I don’t want to complete you, I want you to be as complete as I already am. To take our two wholes and create even more from it.
I don’t want to “be your man” I am the person committed to holding up my end of the commitment we make together.
I don’t want to treat you like a woman, I want to get to know the whole human being, beyond the flesh, and see what errupts from underneath.
Relationships that use gender dynamics, especially heterodynamics based on the corrupted view of the law of attraction and/or the law of gender, are easy for people to do.
Let me repeat that
Gender is easier to do
Being authentic and true is harder
I choose the harder path
Because my soul won’t let me recollapse into the binary
I will for fun
But not function
or form
my body is not me
my body is my souls reaction to the physical world
&
it is temporary
Get to know my soul and treat it right
Forgo the shallow culture that scars our skin into consumable content for others to seek out to validate themselves for noticing
&
Get to know your heart
&
Soul.
